Linda Wood Rondeau

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QUITTING MY DAY JOB
8/17/2020 1:00:00 AM by: DEBRA COLEMAN JETER

PLEASE WELCOME

DEBRA COLEMAN JETER

TO

HAVING THE PRIME OF MY LIFE

 

When I was considering the decision to quit my day job, I kept running into retirees who said retiring was the best thing that ever happened to them. They were traveling the world and staying busier than ever. Of course, this was before COVID-19. My decision was also before COVID-19, but not long before.       

My husband retired a number of years ago. Over the years I’ve heard accounts of husbands who made a nuisance of themselves after retirement and drove their wives nuts. My husband, in contrast, has always been easily entertained. Riding his tractor, scanning the internet, reading books, and news stories … these activities keep him more than content. I worry that we could be the reverse of the norm … that I’ll be the one to drive him crazy.

I had plans, but so many of those plans fell by the wayside when COVID-19 struck. I had intended to travel to Japan in the springtime, join a bus trip to Machu Picchu, visit the south of France, and speak at some writers’ conferences. All canceled. I’ve been the principal breadwinner for years, but I’ve never been good at practicalities. At the university, I had a staff of people to help out when my computer or overhead projector refused to cooperate. At home, I have trouble just navigating the remote controls to the stereo and television.

Look for your strengths, I tell myself, and use those to help others. In this COVID-19 world, however, speaking engagements are drying up, or transitioning to online opportunities for which I feel ill-equipped. I’ve always fancied the idea of writing meaningful fiction, but on my darker days, I articulate my fears. What makes me think I have any talent? What in my lifetime has given me insights worth sharing or greater wisdom than anyone else who has lived, loved, and survived?

I grew up with a bipolar mother, so I’m familiar with depression. I know that you can’t overcome depression by simply willing it away or by counting your blessings. Yet, I’ve not often been depressed myself. Until lately. After a few days of the doldrums, my minister brings a YouTube lesson to my aid. He reminds us of Paul’s words, and the familiar message rings true. When we cannot change our circumstances, we must try to change our attitude. I need to learn “in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content.” (Philippians 4:11)

I also like this quote by Corrie Ten Boom: “When a train goes through a tunnel and it gets dark, you don’t throw away the ticket and jump off. You sit still and trust the engineer.”

ABOUT DEBRA COLEMAN JETER

Sugar Sands Book 2, Song of Sugar Sands, was named a finalist in the 2020 Next Generation Indie Book Awards. Jeter has published in popular magazines, including Working Woman, Christian Woman, and American Baby. Her first novel, The Ticket, was a finalist for a Selah Award. Her short story, “Recovery,” won first prize in a competition sponsored by Christian Woman; and her book “Pshaw, It’s Me Grandson” was a finalist in the USA Book News Awards. She is a co-writer of the screenplay for Jess + Moss, a feature film that premiered at the Sundance Film Festival and captured several international awards. 

The Amazon page: https://www.amazon.com/Joy-After-Noon-Sugar-Sands/dp/194888898X

 Author page on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Debra-Coleman Jeter/e/B00UDTPPC6/ref=dp_byline_cont_book_1

Author website:  www.debracolemanjeter.com

https://www.goodreads.com/author/dashboard

https://twitter.com/DebColemanJeter

Instagram: DebraColemanJeter

 

ABOUT JOY AFTERNOON

Joy marries a widowed bank executive caught in an ethical dilemma and misreads his obvious frustration while struggling to integrate into her new family. Inspired in part by Love, Come Softly, this novel explores the challenges of second marriages and dealing with step-children during the crucial years of puberty and teenage angst. A college professor coming up shortly for the huge tenure decision, Joy finds herself falling apart as her career and her home issues deteriorate and collide.

 

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Nikki Wilbanks From TN At 8/17/2020 12:57:09 PM

Paul writes he has LEARNED how to be content. And that he has LEARNED the secret, "I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength." Learn to base our worth on Christ, our happiness on Christ, and trust our work to Christ. I love that you also used "learn."

Debra Jeter From Clarksville, TN At 8/17/2020 9:55:35 AM

Thanks so much for having me on your website and for everyone who visits and reads. The $.99 sale for the Kindle version should be starting in a couple of days (around the 19th I think) so please mark your calendar if you're interested in a bargain buy. I welcome your feedback and reviews!

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